I awoke to an email from Bella saying the service had gone really well. The speeches were great and the atmosphere was fairly light-hearted, with jokes, stories and little kiddies hugging knees and being passed around family members. It was great for family bonding without doubt. The toughest time was when the old ex-soldiers all got up, stood in line and gave Dad a salute while the Last Post was being played. It's an emotional tune to hear at any time, let alone when a close family member dies.
With the funeral finally over, and news that it had been an affair Dad would have been chuffed with, it is now like a cloud has been lifted off the entire family, including John and I. It has been on our shoulders since we left NZ. In effect, Day One proper of our 2017 stay in France starts today.
We kicked it off with a short walk then sat down at Bar Pablo, had a coffee and read our books for an hour. It was wonderful. The weather continues to be lovely and sunny, with temperatures in the mid to high 20s.
Basically, the rest of Friday, and all weekend we relaxed. We felt very drained and didn't really have much energy for anything. I guess it was a reaction to being so pent up during recent weeks, and then waiting for the funeral service itself. On Friday night we'd been invited out to a friend's place for dinner and we had an enjoyable evening with two other couples. It was very nice, and low-key.
We went to the market as usual on Saturday morning, and found an alternative olive stall since our regular stall-owner retired just last week. It's not the same though! Later in the day we watched the All Blacks play South Africa, where they just managed to scrape through with a win.
We've been keeping up our regular walks in the mornings, and try to throw in the odd high intensity sprints when we can. The weather has been so brilliant, continuing to be warm, with clear skies and no wind. It's such a great time of year to be here. The leaves are starting to fall from the trees and it's definitely darker in the mornings and evenings, but the sun is still warm and the evening light is beautiful.
Taking a standard route on the outskirts of Ceret yesterday, we got talking to the owner of the trufferie past the old convent. Incidentally, there's been quite a bit of tidying-up at the convent, so it's good to see things happening, though John still wishes it was us doing it. He told us about a fountain in the bush. On following his directions we came across it and enjoyed exploring a new track through forest right on our doorstep.
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| An old cut-out stone receives water from the spring. |
On Monday night we hosted two couples to dinner. Of the three men present, one was John (my John), another was Jonathan (known as Jon) and the third was Jonathan (known as Jonathan). Quite bizarre. John and I had put in a big effort to provide a tasty 3-course meal and it went off exceedingly well. Thoroughly enjoyable.
Earlier in the day John and I had met up with a Kiwi couple who have been renting in the adjacent little settlement of Reynes, just on the outskirts of Ceret. They had arrived in January with their three children, aged 10, 8 and 4, to spend a year's immersion in French culture. To sum up their experience, they have loved it. The children are now fluent in French, two of them don't want to go back to NZ, and their parents would love to stay if they could, but have to go back to their jobs and earn some money. Neither have worked while they have been here - they wanted to be totally free to explore the area and become involved in the local community and so on. Their entry into the community via the children's schools has been a real boon for them and they now have many French friends. It was wonderful talking with them. In fact they were expounding the merits of Ceret and beyond to us! We knew some of it but not all.
Tuesday and Wednesday were quiet days again - walks, meeting up with friends for a drink, reading, catching up on correspondence and so on. We've also put a big effort into scouring real estate websites for potential doer-uppers in this region and beyond. Unfortunately, we haven't found any potential projects that offer what we are after. Basically they either exist in tiny hamlets or villages that are just too small, for example they don't even have a bakery, are already renovated or are just too expensive. It many cases, the starting price might be ok but the amount of money needed to do it up would put an overall value on the place that would be too much for the market. We don't want to over-capitalise, but it seems that there are lots of buildings already on the market and they are not selling, even at reduced prices.
Our conclusion seems to cement that Ceret is the place we want to be. It offers so much here, partly because it is a good-sized town with plenty of commerce, but also its handy proximity to the coast, hills, Spain, airport and rail links and more. We love our apartment - it is so well-positioned over the square with all that goes on there, and it is so easy to live in. We are also making more and more friends. We've walked our socks off trying to spy a potential renovation job in or on the outskirts of Ceret but have yet to find one, whether for sale or not. We'll keep bugging the real estate agents here but our chances are looking very slim. We've already been on the lookout for two years. Having said that. we are very happy to just enjoy our little apartment over the square, and focus our attention and energy onto something else. It does free us up for other projects and commitments of course - like grandchildren! What could be better than that?